There is often this question of what do women want, well hat do women actually want? When you know what women want from men it is much easier to navigate relationships. There are 5 things that men must know about women. Women desire to “feel” these things, not just know them logically. In her book, For Men Only, author Shaunti Feldhahn goes into great depth addressing these five, and a few others men need to know.
Men must know that:
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1. Women want to feel loved.
Many women feel insecure about our love for them. There are two things we men can do about it. First, reassure her. In times of conflict, we should tell them we love them no matter what and that everything will be okay—“I love you. We’ll get through this.” When she’s upset, she doesn’t need space,” she needs a hug and to be held. Second, pursue her. Women need to be pursued throughout the relationship, just as we pursued them before we got married.
2. Women want to feel understood.
Women need us to understand how they think and feel, even though that is virtually impossible. It would help us to understand that most women’s thought lives are like computers, with multiple windows open and processing all at once. Unlike men who can only process one thing at a time, women are constantly juggling multiple thoughts and emotions all at the same time. On more than one occasion, I’ve watched my wife, daughters, and their friends having a conversation where three of them were talking at once about three different things. And guess what, they all understood each other! So, hopefully, if we can generally understand how women think, we might be better able to understand how they feel with time.
3. Women want to feel emotionally secure.
Every Woman want security. Yes, financial security is very important, but it comes second to emotional security. Women do think about the house, bills, and tuition, but feeling emotionally connected and knowing we are there for her, no matter what, is what really matters. We should need to observe her mood on a daily basis, see how she switches up, how she react to the littlest things at that point. As a man you need to always guard her emotions and pay serious attention to them.
4. Women want to feel listened to.
Men, she doesn’t want us to fix it, she just wants us to listen .She needs us to just pay attention nodding as she spills her heart out. She doesn’t want or need our solution to the problem, even if she asked for our opinion. She does not want you to understand how she Is feeling about the problem and identify with her in that feeling. “Thanks for sharing that with me” or “I’m so sorry that happened” might be good words to consider saying to her.
5. Women Wants To Feel Beautiful
She needs to know, deep within, that we find her beautiful and that we only have eyes for her and this should be on a regular basis. She doesn’t just want to know, “Am I beautiful?” but, “Am I beautiful to him?” There may be many mirrors in your home, but the mirror that means most to your wife is you. Always have it in mind that any statement from you about her looks can make or mare her day, so be careful when you compliment her. You can go as far as sending her random texts during work of her stunning she looked that morning and even how beautiful she you are sure she would look at night. Trust me, it will blow her world and she is ready to give you the world if you ask for it.
