The wedding ceremony script is one of the crucial elements to consider as your wedding draws near. Knowing how your wedding processes will progress from beginning to end is the essence of a wedding ceremony script.
You can schedule how much time you will spend on the wedding to make room for other activities with the help of a wedding script. Traditional and modern wedding ceremony scripts are two categories for some frequent marriage ceremony script ideas.
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Traditional wedding ceremony
Here are some traditional wedding ceremony script samples that can help you write one of yours.
1st sample
Welcome statement
The Officiant welcomes the congregation
Welcome, dear family, friends, and all loved ones of the couple. We are gathered here today in the sight of God and you all to celebrate the marriage joining ceremony of A and B. We officially present A and B to each other in the presence of their loved ones as they begin this journey to spend the rest of their happy lives together.
Declaration of intent
The officiant leads the couples to take vows that highlight their commitments to each other.
I, A, do take you B to be my lawfully wedded partner from this day- to have and to hold, in good times and bad, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health. I will love, cherish and honor you for as long as I live.
Rings/Vows Exchange
The officiant leads the couples to seal their vows with the wedding rings
With this ring, I wed thee. I promise to honor, love and cherish you in sickness and health until death do us part.
Pronouncement
The officiant pronounces the couple as partners or spouses
Having restated your commitment and love to each other in the presence of Almighty God and the witnesses. With the power vested in me, I hereby declare you spouses. You may kiss each other.
The officiant presents the couple to the congregation.
Family, friends, ladies, and gentlemen. Behold the latest couple in the universe.
2nd sample
Processional
(Everyone is on their feet while the couple walks hand-in-hand to the front of the hall where the priest or officiant is waiting for them.)
Invocation
Dearly beloved, we are here today in the presence of God and loved ones to witness the solemnization of Holy Matrimony between A and B. Marriage is a sacred covenant that must be treated with reverence, discretion, and mutual respect.
We are joyous today as these two are ready to embrace one of the greatest gifts of mankind, which is having a partner to build a family and grow old with.
Heavenly Father, we pray that you bless this couple and guide them as this holy marriage bond is created. Lead them with love and patience as they walk together.
Declaration of intent
The officiant tells the intending couples to declare their intentions to be joined in the Holy matrimony of marriage. The couples take turns stating their intentions as guided by the officiant.
Officiant to the first partner
[Name], Have you considered that getting married to [Name} is the right choice for you to make?
(The first partner replies: I have)
The officiant continues
Do you take [Name] to be your officially wedded partner? To love, comfort, honor, and keep them, in sickness and health, forsaking everyone as long as the both of you shall live?
(The first partner replies: I do)
Officiant to the second partner
[Name], Have you considered that getting married to [Name} is the right choice for you to make?
(The second partner replies: I have)
Do you take [Name] to be your officially wedded partner? To love, comfort, honor, and keep them, in sickness and health, forsaking everyone as long as the both of you shall live?
(The second partner replies: I do)
Vows and rings exchange
The officiant speaks to the congregation, informing them that their vows and exchange signify their commitment and devotion to each other. Then, the officiant turns to them and directs them to take turns putting the rings on each other’s fingers.
Pronouncement of marriage
Ladies and gentlemen, with the power invested in me, it is my honor to introduce to you the newlyweds [Mentions the names of the couple]
Recession
(The couple walks out of the ceremony, followed by the officiants, parents, family, friends, and other well-wishers in the congregation)
3rd sample
Processional
(Everyone is on their feet while the couple walks hand-in-hand to the front of the hall where the priest or officiant is waiting for them.)
Welcome speech
The priest speaks to the congregation
Dear relatives and friends, today we are here at the invitation of the couple to share in the joy of their marriage ceremony. We are here to witness the joining together of [Name] & [Name} in the presence of God and man.
The priest faces the couple to give a short charge on the marriage.
The marriage ceremony is one of the oldest ceremonies in the world, which was first celebrated by our creator. Getting married is one of the best gifts because you experience life better with the person your heart and mind have chosen. Marriage is beyond the seal on your certificate; it is the amalgamation of two lives, journeys, and hearts.
The priest then makes the necessary preparations for the wedding vows to be taken.
The priest faces the first partner.
Please repeat after me; I take you to be my lawfully wedded spouse, to have and to hold, from this day onwards, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health. I promise to love and cherish you till death do us part.
The first partner repeats after the priest
The priest faces the second partner
Please repeat after me; I take you to be my lawfully wedded spouse, to have and to hold, from this day onwards, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health. I promise to love and cherish you till death do us part.
The second partner repeats after the priest.
The priest then asks for the ring from the first partner
Please repeat after me, with this ring, I wed you and seal my promise to be your faithful and loving spouse in the presence of God and our loved ones.
The priest asks for the ring from the second partner
Please repeat after me, with this ring, I wed you and seal my promise to be your faithful and loving spouse in the presence of God and our loved ones.
Pronouncement
The priest faces the congregation; it is my honor to introduce to you [Title-Name] and [Title-Name].
Modern wedding ceremony
Here are some modern wedding ceremony script examples to guide you through a perfect script for your wedding.
1st sample
Welcome speech
The registrar in charge of the wedding speaks to everyone
Good day ladies and gentlemen, friends and family of the couple. My name is [Name], and I welcome you to this ceremony. It means a lot to the couple that you are here to share in their joy and witness the exchange of their marriage vows.
Therefore, if anyone doesn’t want this marriage to hold, please declare your intent before we move on.
The registrar faces the first partner and speaks:
Please repeat after me, I [Name], take you [Name] to be my wedded spouse. I promise to be loving and loyal to you for as long as we live.
The registrar faces the second partner and speaks:
Please repeat after me, I [Name], take you [Name] to be my wedded spouse. I promise to be loving and loyal to you for as long as we live.
Exchange of rings
The registrar requests the wedding rings and faces the first partner
Please repeat after me, I [Name], offer you this ring as a sign of my love and faithfulness to you. May you always be reminded of my devotion to you.
The registrar faces the second partner and speaks:
Please repeat after me, I [Name], offer you this ring as a sign of my love and faithfulness to you. May you always be reminded of my devotion to you.
Declaration of marriage
The registrar speaks to the couple:
Having made declarations of your love and committment to each other in the presence of the witnesses and the law, it gives me the utmost pleasure to pronounce you as spouses. Congratulations! You may kiss each other.
2nd sample
Welcome
The officiant begins by welcoming everyone at the reception:
Good day, everyone. We would love to thank everyone for coming around on this beautiful day to support [Name] and [Name] as they tie this nuptial knot. Your support and love are one of the reasons why they have been able to get to this point.
Vows exchange
The officiant speaks to the couple:
You may exchange your vows
Partner A speaks to Partner B: I am glad I’m getting married to my best friend, who would literally burn down the world to save me. I’m in awe of your selfless love, kindness, and never-relenting desire to keep supporting me. Knowing you is a privilege, and I am beyond convinced we were made for each other. I vow to always support you in the good and dark times. I vow to love you unconditionally.
Partner B speaks to Partner A: You’ve not given me a reason to doubt your love for me. Spending the rest of my life with you is one of my biggest dreams, and I cannot wait to get this journey started. I look forward to creating beautiful memories with you, and I know that I will cherish every minute. I promise to be loving and loyal to you.
The officiant who is holding the rings proceeds to take the ring and exchange vows.
The officiant speaks to the first partner.
Please repeat after me, may this ring serve as a reminder of the love that binds us. Let it be a sign of my love and commitment to you.
The officiant speaks to the second partner.
Please repeat after me, may this ring serve as a reminder of the love that binds us. Let it be a sign of my love and commitment to you.
Proclamation of marriage
The officiant speaks to the congregation
With the authority vested in me, I joyfully pronounce [Name] and [Name] as spouses. You may kiss each other.
More about wedding ceremony scripts
Here is the most asked question related to marriage ceremony scripts.
What is the order of wedding scripts?
When it comes to how a wedding ceremony script should look, it can come in different forms. A wedding officiant script can begin with a procession and end with a closing prayer.
Also, an officiant wedding script might begin with the prayers from the priest or officiant and end with an exchange of vows and a declaration of marriage.
Therefore, when choosing a wedding ceremony script, it is best to work with a wedding vows script that will be convenient for you and your partner.
If you’re at a loss on where to begin when choosing a tradition for how your wedding will go from the vows to the right script, then this book by Carley Roney is for you. The book is titled The Knot Guide to Wedding Vows and Traditions
Final thought
Having read this article on how a wedding ceremony script should look like, the wedding script samples should guide you on how to write yours. It is important to mention that there is no one-size-fits-all when it comes to how a modern wedding ceremony script or traditional wedding ceremony script should look like.
