20 Indices He’s Your Soulmate

Some individuals reject the concept of a soulmate and assert that such a thing does not exist. There are some ideas from the concept of a soulmate that are applicable to real-world love, even though it is challenging to empirically establish that soulmates are real.

For instance, a lot of people think they can meet their ideal mate and develop close relationships with them.

You can check for signs that someone might be your soul mate while you’re seeking for a relationship.

1. Instant connection

The first time you met him, you felt an instant connection, as if the two of you had known each other for years. For example, you may feel so comfortable around him that it seems like you are old childhood friends.

You just have so much in common and so much to talk about.

2. Honesty

You are able to be completely  honest with him, and you trust him as you’ve never trusted anyone before.

You don’t feel like you need to hide parts of yourself in order to please him because you are comfortable being completely open.

3. Encouraging

He pushes you to be the best version of yourself, meaning he may sometimes give you tough love and challenge you to improve. This doesn’t mean that he is being too hard on you.

He simply wants to see you succeed, and he is willing to give you that extra push to help you meet your goals.

4. Chemistry

 

There is a high degree of chemistry between the two of you. This involves physical chemistry and a sense of an electric connection in the relationship, but it also includes emotional and intellectual chemistry.

This means that you will not only feel the spark in your sex life, but you will be attracted to your partner psychologically.

5. Authenticity

You can be yourself around your partner without holding anything back because he accepts who you are

He doesn’t pass judgment on you or make you feel bad about your imperfections. He accepts all of you, good and bad.

6. You miss him

You miss him when the two of you aren’t together, even if he isn’t far away. It is painful to be apart from him throughout the day because you want him to be around.

In fact, even if you have spent the entire day together, you will miss him and think about him as soon as you are no longer together.

7. You are happy

You notice that you are happy and smiling all the time since you got into the relationship.

Perhaps you were struggling to find happiness before the two of you got together, or maybe you were perfectly content, but once the two of you started dating, you noticed that you were always in a good mood because he brings such happiness to your life.

8. He knows you well

Your partner knows you incredibly well, perhaps even better than you know yourself.

This means he can tell when you are upset, and he can finish your sentences for you.

9. He calms you down

When you are upset, he is able to calm you down better than anyone else can.

This is because he is so in tune with you that he knows exactly what to do to make you feel better.

10. Quality time with him

You don’t have to make big plans, such as going to a movie or doing an entertaining activity when the two of you are together, because you can have fun doing absolutely nothing. 

Have you ever heard that you should end up with someone that you have fun with doing something as simple as grocery shopping? If this is the case, you have definitely met your soulmate.

11. Comfortability

You’re so comfortable around each other that just being in his presence relaxes you.

No matter how stressful your day was, when you come home to him or he comes over to your house, you instantly feel relieved.

12. Strong connection

 

The two of you have such a strong connection and are able to read each other so well that other people are unable to understand the bond.

This may mean that you can tell when something is bothering your partner, even if no one else notices. He can also tell when you’re upset, even if you haven’t said anything.

13. You have lost interest in other men

You notice that you have no interest in other men because you are so content in your current relationship, suggesting that you are dating your soulmate already.

When you have found your soulmate, you will be completely wrapped up in the relationship, so you will not even notice other men, no matter how attractive they may be.

14. You understand him

You are able to feel his feelings as if they were your own, so when he is sad, you are sad, and when he is happy, you are happy.

It is almost as if the two of you are on the same wavelength.

15. Having each other’s back

He is supportive of your dreams and helps you to achieve them.

He will never ask you to give up your dreams for him or belittle you for setting your sights on big achievements. He will want you to reach your life goals, and he will be there cheering you on along the way.

16. Appreciation

The two of you appreciate and enjoy each other’s quirks instead of seeing them as strange or off-putting.

Potentially annoying habits, such as leaving socks on the floor, will seem endearing when you are within your soulmate.

17. Feelings of safety

If you feel a sense of safety whenever you are around him, as if he could protect you from anything, this is one of the signs of a true soulmate.

You won’t ever be fearful or worried because he is your protector.

18. Strong team

The two of you make a strbecause you complement each other and balance out each other’s areas of weakness.

If managing finances is your strength, it may be his weakness, but he will make up for it by handling house repairs or planning the yearly vacation.

19. No distrust

You don’t ever doubt his love or worry that he doesn’t want to be with you anymore.

You will simply feel in your gut that he loves you.

20. Vulnerability

You are  able to be vulnerable around him, sometimes showing the worst side of yourself, and he still accepts and loves you.

This means you won’t be afraid to vent to him or cry over something that has upset you because you know you are safe expressing your emotions.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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