Sleeping in the same bed as your partner can make you feel more secure and connected, but couples who sleep together do not always sleep better. Sharing the bed with a cover hog or a nighttime kickboxer can derail an otherwise good night of sleep, which affects overall health.
One strategy couples can try before opting for a “sleep divorce” is the Scandinavian sleep method, where the couple shares a bed but each person sleeps under a separate blanket. This article shall discuss in a broader sense the Scandinavian sleep method and how it works.
The Scandinavian sleep method, also referred to as a 2-duvet system, is the term for sleeping in the same bed as your partner but each having your own blanket, quilt, or duvet. While this seems like it would be complicated in regards to a top sheet, that problem is mitigated by not using one.
Studies have shown that sleeping in the same bed—and with the same blanket—as another person can reduce your sleep quality by 30%.
If you live with your partner, it’s presumed that you share a bed together. But that doesn’t mean sleeping with another person is ideal for you. From insomnia to blanket tug of war, to waking up chilled because your s.o. has stolen the covers again, some people just don’t thrive in a bed with another person.
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No one person invented this different way of sleeping. It’s popular in the Scandinavian countries of Sweden, Denmark, and Norway, and is also practiced in other areas of Europe, such as Iceland and Germany. These countries rank as some of the highest in the world in terms of sleep quality, while the United States is low on the list at 87th best.
The Daily Scandinavian wrote about the sleeping method in 2019 after the above study was released that detailed how well people slept in Scandinavia versus the U.S. and other countries, in which they noted that sleeping with two blankets had been coined “the Scandinavian sleep method.” Since then, the concept has become more popular.
That’s because it’s customary to want to follow the habits of people who are yielding good results with their habits, as Scandinavians are with sleep.
The goal of the Scandinavian sleep method is for you and your partner to have a better night’s sleep. Sleep quality is vital to a happy life, and the more you wake up in the middle of the night, the less rested you’re likely to feel in the morning.
And even if you’re having challenges currently sleeping with your partner, it doesn’t mean that you’d be better off sleeping alone: Studies have shown that bed-sharing leads to improved and more stable REM sleep.
The biggest benefit of the Scandinavian sleep method is that it can improve your quality of sleep without requiring a “sleep divorce” from your partner.
By employing this method, you’ll be less inclined to be woken up by the movement of another person in your bed. In turn, you can sleep uninterrupted for longer periods of time, getting the deeper states of sleep needed to function at your best.
Additionally, not everyone has the same temperature when they sleep. By using two different blankets, those who get colder can opt for heavier blankets than those who are warmer and want a lighter one.
How to Implement It
Getting started with the Scandinavian sleep method requires only the purchase of an additional top quilt, blanket, or duvet. It may seem a little tricky to fit two blankets on one bed; you’ll want to have two single-sized blankets, not two king or queen ones, in order to not get lost in a sea of blankets.
Once you have your blankets, you can either place them next to each other on the bed side by side, with one blanket on the side each of you sleeps on, or you can overlap them slightly. To overlap them, you’d put one down, then put the other on the side and on top of it so that there is an area in the center where the two blankets overlap.
Twin-size blankets are the most common ones to use, but if you have a king-size bed you may be able to fit two full-sized ones on there. If you want a significant amount of overlap in the center, two full-sized blankets on a queen or king will provide that.
Now that your blankets are on your respective sides, you’re ready for bed! The placement of blankets and removal of a top sheet are all that are needed to get started with the Scandinavian sleep method.
Looking to get started with this different way of sleeping, but need a little more help? Here are some tips.
- Choose blankets that work for your temperature during sleep. If you know you get hot at night, a lighter blanket is a better choice than a heavy one.
- If you’re worried about your bed looking discordant, choose blankets that look similar to one another, and place them neatly next to each other so that it’s less obvious they are two and not one.
Potential Pitfalls
The main downside to this way of sleeping is that it doesn’t work well for cuddling. If you and your partner like to sleep close to one another, the Scandinavian sleep method might create challenges in that happening easily.
There is also an innate lack of skin-to-skin contact with the sleep method. Skin-to-skin contact for sleep has been studied predominantly in relation to parents and children, rather than people in relationships, but science has proven that sleeping in the nude can lead to better quality sleep for anyone.
It’s also accepted that skin-to-skin contact creates oxytocin for everyone, not just parents and babies.
It’s normal for couples to have challenges in their relationship, including sleeping. If you’ve been moving through a difficult period in your relationship, couples counseling might be a wise choice for you.
If you’re suffering from insomnia, there are numerous things you can try to get a better night’s sleep.
I hope you find this article helpful.
