Dear Love Doctor,
I promise to make this a brief one and I ask that you advise me on what to do.
I caught my brother’s wife in a hotel. I had traveled for a wedding for which I was the maid of honour, so I had to lodge in that hotel with my friends — the bridesmaids.
My friends advised me to tell my brother but I couldn’t find the courage because my brother is also cheating on his wife with his ex-girlfriend.
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When we — my parents and my siblings — found out, we pleaded with him to stop but he refused. We tried everything to dissuade him, all to no avail. And I was shocked to find out that his wife was also playing the same dirty game as him.
As it stands, I am convinced they’re perfect for each other; very deserving of themselves.
However, i don’t seem to understand his wife’s actions.
I mean what would even prompt a mother of three to leave her husband and go outside to cheat?
I really respect my sister-in-law and I can’t say I understand the pain that made her decide to cheat back and i am confused on how to approach the issue.
Should I encourage her to leave my brother?
Because I sincerely believe that trash is trash, be it my blood or whatever. My brother has never been a good husband to her and I hate him for that.
Now that it has escalated to this point, what do you think I should do?
Let them cheat on each other freely? Or ask my sister-in-law to leave the marriage?