Dear Love Doctor,
Good day, Sir.
When I first met my man I knew he had family outside Nigeria, but I also knew he was not going there often, so I thought it is not going to be a problem!
Now, things are getting complicated.
He said he want to have family with me, and he wants to talk to his other wife and make her understand and afterwards we can make our family too.
I am very confused because I do love him and wouldn’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings.
But being a second wife is starting to sound weird to me since he mentioned needing to communicate with his other wife before settling down with me.
Please, what can I do?
They already have kids and I can’t seperate them, what should I do?