Dear Love Doctor,
I am in love with my boyfriend’s cousin.
I observed that my boyfriend womanizes a lot and whenever I complain he will tell me if I can’t cope I should leave.
I usually visit him every weekend despite the fact that he’s living with his cousin who is the just the exact opposite of my boyfriend.
There’s this day I had an argument with my boyfriend and he left the house that night in annoyance.
I was so down crying and his cousin approached me to console and calm me down, one thing led to the other and we ended up getting streamy. We had sex.
Ever since, he hasn’t gotten over the mistake and has not stopped apologizing for taking advantage of the situation.
Meanwhile, on my end, it was bliss.
Now the issue is that I am falling for him so much and I don’t know how to open my feelings to him.
This guy is a 10!
He is caring, works from home, too busy to womanize, you name it.
I don’t know what to do, or how to let him know of my feelings.
The only reason I am still putting up with my boyfriend is because I want to stay close to him. And judging by the way he stares at me, I think he feels the same way.
Love Doctor, I don’t know what to do.
I’m scared of getting hurt again.
He is 33, my boyfriend is 31 and I’m 29.
Please, what should I do?
How do I approach him?