If you regard your value-the end never justifies the means. Your ambitions, no matter how big, are not wrong as long as they align with your values.
However, the more attached to your timeline, the more you’re in danger of “means to an end” thinking, which is the beginning of wrongdoing:
- “The goal is what matters.”
- “I’ll do whatever it takes to get there.”
- “The outcome is more important than the journey.”
- “As long as I achieve my objective, it doesn’t matter how I get there.”
All of these statements ignore the toll it takes on one’s soul…
Should You Have A Timeline For Achieving A Goal?
It’s not wrong to have a wished-for timeline for achieving your ambitions. It’s natural. Having a timeline helps you plan your actions and eliminate some less-effective steps for getting there.
For example, if you’re launching a program and want to enroll 100 people, that’s great! You will eventually be able to do it if you keep growing your audience and announcing the program.
But if you become fixated on the timeline, for example, to enroll those 100 people in the next 3 months, you might be tempted to compromise your values by using unethical tactics to meet that deadline. Or, if you do what’s right, and don’t get to that 100 goals, you’ll be disappointed and might be discouraged about future efforts.
To practice joy or fulfillment in the process, along the way, is to be connected to your deeper values while taking action.
That kind of care about the journey is what keeps you true to your heart, and deeply happy.
Look at your expectation of how much money you will make in the next 12 months. For that monetary goal, is that a realistic timeline? Again, your ambitions for making a certain amount of money are not unethical, but your timeline might be. The more that you require your timeline to be achieved, to be happy, the more unethical you must act, or the more discouraged you’ll be.
The less you require of your timeline to be happy, the more heartfelt you can live.
The secret of “joyful productivity” is to discover (and practice) the deep happiness that’s available within the process of getting anywhere or getting things done.
The more we find that process-based deep happiness, the less attached we are to the outcome.
The more ethically (according to our values) that we can act, the more heart & soul gets infused into our actions.
Having a clear understanding of your values and ethical principles is essential for navigating the journey toward your ambitions. It provides a solid foundation for making decisions and taking action that aligns with what is most important to you, especially when the path ahead is uncertain.
This allows you to pursue your goals with integrity and authenticity, knowing that your actions are in line with your values.
Notice Your Self-Talk
Statements that indicate a “means to an end” mindset include:
“I’ll do whatever it takes to get there.”
“Just gotta get this done.”
“This is going to be a slog.”
“This is boring.”
To cultivate a fulfilling-means mindset, try saying:
“What aspect of this task can I enjoy?”
“What value am I practicing as I do this task?”
“How can I breathe Spirit into this task?”
“How can I express gratitude for the opportunity to do this?”