Girls are beautiful creatures. Yet they are very complicated to handle. Sometimes, it’s almost impossible to know if a lady is into you. But in this article, you will learn how to know if a girl likes you.
Understanding a lady is more complicated than engineering mathematics. It’s a puzzle most guys find extremely difficult to crack.
Ladies manifest their love for you in different ways. Annoyingly, they expect you to understand their body language.
A friend of mine once asked a lady out, and the lady outrightly declined. He tried for a while, and she said no. The guy started dating another girl because the one he initially asked out rejected him.
Guess what happened? The girl came back to my friend that she loves him just that she was trying to play hard to get. It sounds funny, huh? Well, that’s how ladies behave…
So, here are some tricky ways to know if a girl likes you.
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Table of Contents
- 1 How to Know If a Girl Likes You
- 1.1 #1. When She Always Smiles at You
- 1.2 #2. She Finds Whatever You Say Funny
- 1.3 #3. She Always Feels Uneasy When She Meets Your eyes
- 1.4 #4. She Always Notices You
- 1.5 #5. She Always Licks Her Lips When She’s With You
- 1.6 #6. She Always Enjoys Your Company
- 1.7 #7. She Gets Really Jealous When You Flirt With Other Girls
- 1.8 #8. She Always Put Her Hand On Your Thigh
- 1.9 #9. She Jokily Asks You Out for a Date
- 1.10 #10. She’s Fond of Touching Whenever You Are With Her
- 1.11 #11. Her Friends Indirectly Give You Clues That She Likes You
- 1.12 Conclusion
How to Know If a Girl Likes You
#1. When She Always Smiles at You
One of the green lights girls give when they like you is to always smile at you. Whenever you are having a conversation with her, she smiles at you a lot.
Once you see a lady smiling at you always, there are chances that she likes you. However, I would advise you not to rush things. Just take your time and follow the flow.
Like I mentioned earlier, ladies are very complicated sometimes. So, it will be unwise to ask her out because she smiled at you one or two times.
The smile must be natural and real. I mean, the ones that crinkle up her eyes.
#2. She Finds Whatever You Say Funny
When a girl always laughs at whatever you say, it’s a sign that she likes you. And when both of you spend most of the time laughing and cracking jokes together, the bond will become stronger.
My friend (John) once told me that he didn’t ask his first girlfriend out. He was always cracking her up with funny jokes.
Sometimes, they will spend time together saying funny things and laughing out loud.
However, one afternoon, when they were together, the girl kissed him. Guess what? That was how the relationship started.
Surprisingly, that girl became his wife, and they are both happy together. Most times, love happens in the least expected ways.
#3. She Always Feels Uneasy When She Meets Your eyes
Another tip on how to know if a girl likes you is when she feels Uneasy whenever she meets your eyes.
Some girls will always want to shoot a short glance at you when you are with them.
But they don’t want you to know that they are looking at you. That’s why they always feel uneasy when they meet your eyes.
Although a girl can still love you and confidently look at your eyes, it’s not common…
#4. She Always Notices You
When a girl likes you, she notices you even in the crowd. She observes you from a distance and will always commend your actions.
However, ladies may notice you differently in different situations. But the important thing is that when a lady always notices you from a crowd, it’s an indication that he loves.
#5. She Always Licks Her Lips When She’s With You
You don’t need a soothsayer to know that a girl likes you when she licks her lips whenever she’s with you. It’s an obvious green light that ladies usually give when they are attracted to you.
According to experts, when a lady licks her lips, it’s a way of drawing your attention to her lips. In other words, she is inviting you to kiss her.
However, you have to be patient when interpreting some of these signs. And try as much as possible not to take action too early. Again, sometimes, when a lady licks her lips frequently, it could just be a bad habit. But if she’s doing it because she wants you to take action, you will be able to interpret it.
#6. She Always Enjoys Your Company
When a lady likes you, she will always want to be around you. She will have a great conversation with you and even tell you some of her deepest secrets. And when you speak, she will give you full attention.
#7. She Gets Really Jealous When You Flirt With Other Girls
When a lady likes you, she tends to get jealous when she sees other girls around you. She may not react immediately when she sees you flirting with other girls.
But she will bring up the topic later in the future to confirm if the lady in question is your lover. She may say something like, “Please leave me alone so that your girlfriend, I saw the other day would not break my head.”
A statement like this may seem like a joke to you. But she’s indirectly asking if you are in a relationship with the girl she saw you with the other time.
#8. She Always Put Her Hand On Your Thigh
Another tip on how to know that a girl likes you is when she put her hands on your thigh too often. If she only does it once, it could be an honest mistake. But if she repeats the same action regularly, she may be trying to send you a greenlight.
Most times, guys usually feel uncomfortable and nervous when a lady places her hand on their thigh. But the players will keep calm and look into the girl’s eyes for the next action.
#9. She Jokily Asks You Out for a Date
When a lady tells you to go out for a date with her jokily, she may be indirectly telling you to ask her out. As a rule, don’t get too excited when she casually asks you out for a date. But if she keeps pushing for it, you can make the first move.
Sometimes, a girl can even playfully tell you that “we will look good together as a couple.” Even though she says it casually, it could be an indirect way of telling you she likes you.
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#10. She’s Fond of Touching Whenever You Are With Her
This is another helpful tip on how to know if a girl likes you once you notice that a girl is fond of touching you whenever you are together; it a sign that she ones to be with you.
Depending on the girl, she can come up with different excuses to touch you. Whatever her reasons are, when the touch is becoming too frequent, it’s an indication that she wants you to ask her out.
#11. Her Friends Indirectly Give You Clues That She Likes You
Sometimes, her friends may give you a lot of clues that she loves you. In fact, it’s one of the most straightforward tips on how to know if a girl likes you.
What her friends do or how they react when you are around them can give you a clue of what she’s been telling them in your absence.
Some of the ways her friends will behave to give you a clue about a lady’s fondness for you are;
- They also glance at you when you are approaching them.
- Sometimes, they may be smiling when they see you.
- Her friends tend to tease her a lot when you are together.
- She is always not comfortable around her friends when you are with her. It could be that she’s afraid that any of her friends may unconsciously tell you the truth.
Once you understand these tips on how to know if a girl likes you, you will not always find yourself in the friendzone. Also, if you fail to take action when a lady sends you a greenlight/signal, you will end up being a ‘bestie’.
And we all know that nothing breaks the heart more than seeing the girl you love so much in a relationship with another guy and call you her ‘bestie’.
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