Dear Love Doctor,
Good afternoon Sir, I know you give relationship advice, please help me heal, move on, or bring my husband back to me.
I am heartbroken, I have been with my husband since 2019, we had our court marriage in 2020 and traditional marriage in August 2021.
I just gave birth to my second child who is barely a month old through CS and I have discovered that my husband cheats on me terribly. It’s chronic as he runs a big catering company and has female students under his tutorials.
He takes turns daily to sleep with one or two during work periods in a hotel or after work.
Just recently, I approached him in the night and asked him why he cheats on me; why he finds joy in sleeping with his students because I was able to see his chats and people that know we’re married have seen him entering hotels several times.
He didn’t say anything, he kept mute for hours and later left the bed to the other room.
He woke up in the morning and went about his daily routine as if nothing had happened or I didn’t say anything or he didn’t do anything.
It’s been three months plus that we last had sex and this is because it was discovered while I was pregnant that I have Staphylococcus Aerus.
I have undergone the treatment twice, yet when we make love, I would start discharging seriously which could easily be a turn off for him, hence for over 3 months now, he hasn’t touched me.
I am devastated, heartbroken, and haven’t been myself. I feel like harming him or leaving the marriage, but I am confused all together, please help me.
I need help.