What to Look For When You Date an Alpha Male In 2023

If you’re going to go for such a guy, the thing to look out for is his long-term values. Does he WANT to be a good husband and father? Does he SACRIFICE his needs for yours? Does he put YOU first, or does he always have to control and win? There ARE alpha males who do that, but there are more who do not.

So it’s not that it’s impossible to find an alpha male partner who wants to settle down with you — it’s that alpha males are inherently high risk/high reward.

And, from what I’ve seen as a dating coach, most women are willing to take the risk — but very few actually get the long-term reward.

From what I’ve seen as a dating coach, most women are willing to take the risk — but very few actually get the long-term reward.

What Kind of Woman Gets to Date an Alpha Man?

As for what type of woman you have to be to date an alpha guy, in general, I’d say many alpha males fall in love with someone who is supportive of them. Someone who is cool with his hours. Someone who doesn’t nag him all the time about his job. Alpha males in relationships seek partners who can love and listen to them and provide a fun change of pace when he finally clears space to be 100% present.

Still, being the ideal woman for an alpha male isn’t always enough — not if the alpha male doesn’t have a  strong moral code and doesn’t fundamentally value monogamy as much as he values conquering new women and new businesses.

SOMEONE gets the alpha male to marry her, all right, but I can assure you that she is not always happy with what she gets.

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