80 Questions to Ask When Getting To Know Someone

Sometimes, starting a conversation with someone you just met is a bit challenging. It’s not that there’s nothing to talk about, but the right conversation to connect you with the person is the real deal. So, in the article, I’m going to share with you the right questions to ask when getting to know someone. 

It doesn’t matter if you are trying to know your coworker, acquaintance, or someone you are crushing on; it can be challenging to make a real connection with people. For this reason, I have come up with over 200 questions you can ask someone to know them on a deeper level. 

If you ask these questions the right way, you will get to know anybody you are just meeting. Sounds great, right? Keep reading… 

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#1. How do you describe your philosophy in life?


#2. If you have the chance, what’s the one thing you would like to change about your life?


#3. Would you describe yourself as a spiritual or religious person?


#4. Do you see yourself as an Introvert or Extrovert?


#5. Between your mom and your dad, who do you love most and why?


#6. Which phase of your life will you always remember?


#7. I know it’s terrible to talk about your past, but what phase of your life did you dislike most?


#8. Are you currently doing what you always wanted to do as a kid?


#9. Is there anything in life that makes you feel accomplished?


#10. What’s your favourite book of all time and why do you love the book so much?


#11. Does relationship deal-breaker mean anything to you?


#12. Between an intelligent person and a beautiful person, who would you want to be in a relationship with?


#13. Do you think you will ever forgive your partner if he/she cheated on you?


#14. Do you think it’s okay sharing your password with your partner?


#15. In your opinion, what’s the right time for someone to marry?


#16. If you are to become a parent today, what kind of parent do you want to be?


#17. What would be your reaction if your parents don’t approve of your relationship?


#18. Who is that person you can always confide in about everything?


#19. What’s your take about being a casual friend with an ex after a breakup?


#20. Have you ever betrayed someone close to you?

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#21. Do you like being alone when in a bad mood or prefer talking to someone?


#22. In your opinion, what’s the best way to spend a weekend?


#23. Is a good idea to be best friends with the opposite sex?


#24. Are you always judgemental, or do you give people a chance to prove themselves?


#25. Do you always confront people about an issue?


#26. Have you ever broken someone’s heart before?


#27. Can you relocate to another city because of love?


#28. What skill are you most passionate about?


#29. What is that thing you are most appreciative about?


#30. Do you believe in giving people second chances?


#31. What do you think people always misunderstand about you?


#32. How do you describe a perfect vacation?


#33. What’s the most valuable lesson you learn from your last relationship?


#34. Do you believe in finding true love via online dating and tinder?

#35. What’s the one thing you are trying so hard to achieve this year?


#36. What do you think is the craziest thing you have ever done? And would you do it again if you have the chance?


#37. If you have just three wish this year, what would they be?


#38. What would you say is your greatest regret in life?


#39. What do you always think about when you are alone?


#40. Do you have job satisfaction in your current workplace?


#41. What was your career choice as a kid?


#42. What was the reason you ended your last relationship?


#43. Can you tell me your biggest mistake in life?


#44. Where is your favourite vacation location in the world?


#45. What are your five favourite movies of all time?


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#46. What’s that song that consoles you when you are heartbroken?


#47. Can you tell me the one thing you love so much about your parents?


#48. Why are you so fond of your best friend?


#49. What’s that thing you always like doing when you are alone?


#50. Mentioned one thing you are so addicted to?


#51. Are you always spontaneous when making important decisions?


#52. Have you ever done any crazy thing for love before?


#53. Don’t take this personal, why do you think you are still single?


#54. What accomplishment are you proud of the most?

#55. What goal are you so eager to achieve this year?


#56. So, what’s your greatest fear?


#57. What do you value most about a person?


#58. Who are the five closest people to you in your life?


#59. What’s the greatest challenge you overcome recently?


#60. If you have the option to live anywhere in the world, where will you choose?


#61. What’s the most fantastic thing that happened to you this last year?


#62. Do you have any favourite bear?


#63. What bothers you most about the world today?


#64. If you have to change something about yourself, what would that be?


#65. If you have the opportunity to change the world, what would that be?


#66. Who was your favourite High school teacher, and why?


#67. What’s your favourite sport?


#68. What do you think is the weirdest thing about you?


#69. So, what do you think is your longest relationship ever?


#70. Which of your exes did you regret ever leaving?


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#71. What do you think your best friend will say is your best quality?


#72. Who is your favourite historical figure of all time?


#73. What did you love most about your high school days?


#74. What’s your favourite food?


#75. Which do you prefer dogs or cats?

#76. The one thing you wish you knew how to do?


#77. What was the last book you read?


#78. What’s was your best birthday party?


#79. Can you tell me your goal for the next five years?


#80. What are your favourite types of exercise?


#81. If you have the chance, will you choose your career all over again?


#82. Do you like spending time with your family members?


#83. How will you define your family in one word?


#84. How do you want your family life to be when you are married?


#85. So, what’s your favourite family tradition?


#86. What was your experience growing up as the only child in the family?


#87. Did you ever hide anything or lie to your parents as a kid?

These are the questions to ask when getting to know someone. The more you share personal information about yourself, the more intimate you will be with the person. 

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